jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 100%
It's wild how quick some people on here automatically assume negative intent with questions like these.
jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 100%
Not a bot account. Literally just posted the same question but reversed so both groups would have a place to answer.
jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 69%
It's crazy to me how small women's pants pockets are. Like dayum y'all really can't hold shit in there
jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 70%
Gotcha. So just for future reference, are we not allowed/supposed to ask questions like this in this community? Or is it moreso just looked down upon in here than other communities that are specifically suited for questions like it?
jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 60%
Where is the place for that? Just want to hear some honest perspectives for educations sake.
jerryjigglemeyer 11mo ago • 100%
watched the whole video. 10/10 would do again
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
25 TB?? Damn
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
I'd hope that's the case, but I mean, look at artificial intelligence. People are widely adapting that even though theres proof that its going to replace tons of jobs in the near future.
But hey, "ooh shiny technology"
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 91%
i'm pretty sure that was their point.
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 60%
That's kind of what I meant. Didn't articulate it well enough. I see it as like a "hey, because my partner is doing this for me, I WANT to do this for them." Reciprocation of effort. Not necessarily just finances. I've been in situations where I felt like I was putting in more effort and it wasn't being reciprocated. So I was wondering if it was fair to expect equal reciprocation in a relationship where both people are able to contribute the same things
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 60%
It's interesting how much you assumed of my intentions based on me asking an honest question.
I asked because I had a conversation about this with someone I was saw as a dating potential. We both went to the same school, took the same classes, and make around the same salary-wise. She asked why I haven't dated her yet and it was because she has expectations of a relationship that didn't align with mine.
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
honest, well-thought out, and unbiased answer
Let's say both the guy and girl make the same amount of money and are both good at and enjoy cooking and cleaning. Would it be wrong for a guy to want the girl to give equal contribution financially to the relationship if he's also willing and capable of contributing equally to domestic duties? In this same scenario, would it be wrong for him to expect her to cook and clean if he's expected to handle the financial aspects of the relationship?
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
As a black dude, that's a huge red flag. It's weird af
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
update?
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
it's really hard out here for us thicc thighed homies 😔
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 100%
Wait so with the bidet do you still wipe after the little splish sploosh or do you just air dry?
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 66%
Butt wipes are an absolute game changer. If I don't use them I just feel dirty for the rest of the day until I get a chance to shower
jerryjigglemeyer 1y ago • 90%
I'm actually fairly fit. I just always felt more comfortable standing and wiping than sitting down
I was taking my daily mid-morning poop today and while I was wiping, I thought, I wonder how most people wipe. I tend to wipe while standing up cause it's more comfortable and allows for more cheek-spreaditivity. So, I beg the question: How does most of Lemmy wipe? Do you wipe while standing up or do you wipe while sitting down? Why?