Because the HOA says so
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    SomeoneElse
    2mo ago 100%

    Just a reminder (yet again) that the world is bigger than the US. I live in the UK, we don’t water our lawns here. Grass will grow literally anywhere with no human involvement. Letting your lawn grow a little longer is great for wildlife - the bees love the clover! In you live in the countryside get a sheep/cow/goat/donkey/llama and you’ll feed livestock without having to mow it either.

    That said, fuck leaf blowers. There is absolutely no need for that noise.

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  • That's a big burger
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    SomeoneElse
    2mo ago 100%

    I’m in the UK so didn’t see the last one but during the previous one I found looking around at the darkness and observing how all the birds went quiet was a bigger deal than the actual eclipse of the sun. I mean that was still really cool, but the dark and stillness was uncanny.

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  • cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/19150058

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    Crowd Cheers as Convicted Rapist is Eliminated in Olympic Beach Volleyball
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    SomeoneElse
    3mo ago 100%

    Yeah, I thought the same when I wrote the comment. I’ve read a bit more about him and what he was charged with. In the UK he wasn’t convicted of grooming - they prosecuted him for it but he was found not guilty. I think it was a consensual relationship, but of course a 19 year old having sex with a 12 year old is rape regardless of consent in the UK and he was (rightly) convicted of that. In the Netherlands however the law is different, it wasn’t considered rape but something like “morally offensive actions”. So from the Dutch pov he’s not actually a rapist, which might explain why the Dutch Olympic committee don’t seem to think it’s that big a deal. Despite that, I still think a convicted pedophile rapist should not be allowed to compete in the games, but that needs to be made clear in the eligibility requirements by the IOC, rather than the wishy-washy “role model” contract.

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  • Crowd Cheers as Convicted Rapist is Eliminated in Olympic Beach Volleyball
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    SomeoneElse
    3mo ago 100%

    All Olympic athletes sign a declaration saying they’ll strive to be a role model or something similar. I’d say a convicted rapist shouldn’t be considered a role model and therefore shouldn’t be allowed to compete.

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  • cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/17955803

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    cross-posted from: https://fedia.io/m/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world/t/944445

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    Only telling people my height in cm from now on
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    SomeoneElse
    5mo ago 100%

    I use a wheelchair on occasion - when I’m unwell and use my wheelchair I measure about 3cm taller than when I’m well and have been walking!

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  • How rude!
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    SomeoneElse
    5mo ago 100%

    I’ve never heard it called “bad tension” but I have POTS (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome) which fits your symptoms. I can’t maintain my blood pressure when I stand still (or if I get too hot, bend down, lift my arms over my head, eat a big meal…) my heart rate skyrockets to try to compensate and I ultimately faint.

    I was diagnosed in 2012 and they’re still tweaking my medication to try and get it right. For most people it starts in their teenage years and they “outgrow” it within 5 years. For me it’s second to moderately severe Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, there’s no outgrowing it. I can’t go anywhere that requires more than a short walk from the car to a seat - queues are literally my enemy - so I use a wheelchair. The amount of dirty looks I get when I get out of my wheelchair to move to a more comfortable seat, or to go to the toilet etc are awful! Not only are a lot of disabilities invisible but not everyone who uses a wheelchair can’t walk at all. Grrrr!

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  • cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/19705534 > Believe what you see, not what you’re told

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    "Bleach blonde, bad built butch body"
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    SomeoneElse
    5mo ago 100%

    Swear away friend. As long as you’re not inciting violence or using slurs/language to intimidate, have at it.

    Malcom Tucker will always be my favourite go to when insulting politicians (or anyone actually) “You’re a fucking omnishambles, that’s what you are. You’re like that coffee machine, you know: from bean to cup, you just fuck up.”

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  • Spiders eat bugs. Bugs are bugs.
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    SomeoneElse
    5mo ago 100%

    Nah. It’s not a particularly clever comeback. I don’t doubt he was pleased to have the opportunity but I don’t think that’s why he posted.

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  • cross-posted from: https://mander.xyz/post/12816281 > bugs

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    If you take care of your parents or other elderly, how are you preparing to age gracefully?
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    SomeoneElse
    6mo ago 100%

    Don’t worry, I have a life threatening illness and reduced life expectancy anyway. And I’m not suicidal. It was already my preferred way to go, this ordeal with my mum just made it crystal clear in my mind. Thankfully I have access to everything I need already so I wouldn’t get anyone else in trouble and my loved ones understand my decision and feel similarly. It being legal would be a bonus, but I’m not letting a law stop me.

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  • If you take care of your parents or other elderly, how are you preparing to age gracefully?
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    SomeoneElse
    6mo ago 100%

    My mums been in hospital for 10 weeks. She only 62 and was admitted for a fairly routine infection after chemo for breast cancer. Since she’s been in hospital I’ve lost count of all the things that have gone wrong but the most distressing thing is the hospital delirium she’s developed. I’d never have believed my mum could become so violent and abusive, it’s like she’s a completely different person. She has absolutely no agency over her body at the moment, she can’t even sit up unaided. It’s so horribly undignified that it’s completely cemented my decision to commit suicide once I get a terminal diagnosis (or a diagnosis that I know I couldn’t deal with graciously). I can’t have children so it’s a small comfort that I won’t inflict the pain and heartbreak I’m experiencing from my mum, but I don’t ever want to treat my partner how she’s treating my dad. I’m going out on my own terms if at all possible.

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  • cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/10902481 >

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    I don’t know anyone irl who might be vaguely interested so I thought I’d post here! I’m making this hat for my MIL when I see her in a few weeks. It’s a free pattern and [you can find it here.](https://crazyhands.net/liana-cable-knit-hat-pattern/)

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    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/10008769 >

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    JustGuysBeingDudes SomeoneElse 10mo ago 94%
    Fun

    cross-posted from: https://lemmus.org/post/2079589 >

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    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/8984669 >

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    cross-posted from: https://startrek.website/post/2708460 >

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    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/5848360 >

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    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/5061450 >

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