How do you feel about people who refuse to eat anything other than slop? (fast food, microwavable shit etc)
  • Eris235 Eris235 6d ago 100%

    I have some resentment, personally. Not that there aren't valid reasons for it, especially in our broken system, but I have a highly restricted diet (dozens of deadly food allergies), so I can't eat out ever (due to cross contamination being a roll of the dice), and even most prepared foods I can't have.

    So I spend a lot of time and energy, cooking delicious, cheap, vegan meals for myself, despite having a blue-collar job. And it does bother me, seeing people who can eat 'whatever' just eating slop.

    Even when I feel like shit, and eat 'slop', it's generally a stir fry, something like rice, (frozen) veggies, and sauce, thrown in a pan for five minutes. I rationally understand the various reasons people might not have the energy or cooking skills for even that, but emotionally, it does bother me.

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  • [IMPORTANT] This space is now a nut free zone
  • Eris235 Eris235 1w ago 100%

    Bless. EpiPens are fucking expensive enough as it is.

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  • *drops hexbear lore*
  • Eris235 Eris235 2w ago 100%

    Exactly my opinion. It is interesting in some ways, but it apes the mmo style of quest design too closely for my tastes.

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  • The people yern for Schizophrenia Simulator 3000
  • Eris235 Eris235 4w ago 100%

    I genuinely hate the description of AI fucking up as 'hallucinating'. AI doesn't need more humanized than it already is. Just call it what it is; AI being wrong. Confidently, unfixable wrong. 'AI hallucination' was a term that was invented in the early 2000's, by the techbros of two decades ago. And it sucks as a term.

    I feel like the internet loves to shit on people with psychotic disorders, and its generally accepted, even among otherwise pretty progressive circles.

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  • The people yern for Schizophrenia Simulator 3000
  • Eris235 Eris235 4w ago 100%

    wdym 'Schizophrenia Simulator'?

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    I tell them i am allergic to lactose lol
  • Eris235 Eris235 1mo ago 100%

    Its not really cool to l lie about food allergies; doing so makes it less likely for people with food allergies to be taken seriously.

    Though tbh, I avoid eating out unless I literally have too anyway, been poisoned too many times from I assume cross contamination or negligence.

    (and, I am also vegan, which doesn't make 'eating out' easier)

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    My PF2e party, pixel art style

    Drew the party for the 'wizard school' game I'm running in Pathfinder 2nd edition. We got a Sprite Fervor Witch, Wispi Winki Dwarf Spellshot Gunslinger, Rudy Snoke (focused on two pistols) Ratfolk Armor Inventor, Stump And Anandi Summoner Wugaloshka, and their Construct Eidolon Gashkalowu

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    neurodiverse 1mo ago
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    Do supplements actually help?
  • Eris235 Eris235 1mo ago 100%

    is is the case with most health issues, certain deficiencies can cause certain issues. But, outside of having a specific deficiency, its all placebo.

    Will taking vitamin D and B12, magnesium, etc. cure your AuDHD? No.

    Could taking them make you feel better in some ways, freeing up some spoons/mental space to better handle whatever issues in your life that requires energy and focus to deal with? Yes, its possible. Assuming you are deficient, which, minor to moderate deficiencies in those three aren't uncommon.

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  • vegan
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    What is the worst "Vegan Option" you've ever been offered?
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    That would literally kill me (well, probably actually just sent me to the hospital).

    I thought, when I first went vegetarian (vegan now) years ago, that I wouldn't need to specify 'no fish' when I ordered food labeled 'vegetarian'. But Fish sauce or Oyster sauce has sent me to the hospital at least once.

    I no don't really eat out ever anymore, as I don't feel like gambling on the 1% cross contamination chart (got several other allergies too), but its crazy to me that food labeled as vegetarian is allowed to have fish sauce in it.

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  • vegan
    vegan 2mo ago
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    What is the worst "Vegan Option" you've ever been offered?
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    A lot of languages also don't consider 'meat' to include 'fish meat', having entirely separate words for the two.

    but yeah, I think in the US, its mostly catholicism brainworms

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  • Kill the sportsball redditor inside your head
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    Can't relate; I do think its pretty boring. Its up there with like; clubbing or bar culture. I don't hate it, but I'm left wishing it was just like, a house party or something, somewhere less loud and crowded.

    I don't shit on sportsfans or anything, I just can't understand why its enjoyable to watch. But like, there's lots of hobbies I don't 'get', so I'm not judging people for liking things I don't. And I do like playing sports, generally speaking.

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    Tried Deadlock last night
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    I didn't care for it. Very much 'skill issue', but all the games I've played so far against people has felt like I lost the game in the first 10 minutes, and then had to endure 30 minutes of getting my balls stepped on for the game to end, since there's no surrender option, and didn't feel like there's any 'comeback' mechanics, but also the winning team feels like it takes a while to actually secure victory.

    Compared to League of Legends (which I haven't played in years, but did rack up many hours back in college), where a) you can surrender, and more importantly b) its possible to win quite quickly, both from just being ahead, but also from doing a cheeky 'backdoor'.

    Deadlock, it feels like the 'securing victory' route requiring minions, and also just being a multistage affair with mandatory wait periods in between, just makes it feel like a slog, both being on the winning or losing side.

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    Mushrooms are awesome. We need more mushroom appreciation on hexbear
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    'scallops' from king mushrooms might be my favorite

    Chicken/hen of the woods 'pulled pork' tacos are excellent (oyster mushrooms also work)

    Lion's mane 'crab cakes'

    Combined with Beanis for blackbean and mushroom burgers

    Also just, in soup. Minestrone is a classic, but I've been liking as a side some miso soup with just a bit of diced button mushrooms and seaweed

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    neurodiverse 2mo ago
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    I am autistic, an autist, not a “person with autism”
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    I can't directly relate. I strongly prefer 'person with schizophrenia' to 'schizophrenic' (or similar, worse terms). I feel that, first and foremost, I am a person, as are all people, neurodivergent or not.

    But also, I support you in being referred to as you want. I don't need to relate to your experience to just, refer to you as an autist (when I would need to refer to it at all), after you tell me you prefer that.

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  • games
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    As Veilguard hype builds, Larian boss says "I was in love with Morrigan in Dragon Age" and suddenly I understand why Baldur's Gate 3 is filled with bad girls
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    Gale is the fucking worst. He talks like a redditor. Probably only Astarion is worse.

    Karlach I guess I can see people liking; to me its less the character, and more the writing. She isn't sold to me; she comes off not like a person, but like a new player's first barbarian trying to fight for ~power and love and violence!. I can't take her seriously, she just feel like a tumblr post made live or something.

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    As Veilguard hype builds, Larian boss says "I was in love with Morrigan in Dragon Age" and suddenly I understand why Baldur's Gate 3 is filled with bad girls
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 81%

    Ugh, yeah, that tracks.

    #1 complaint (and, really only, aside from bugs) about BG3 is just how unlikable every single companion is. And yeah, they do got big Morrigan energy, for worse.

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  • Thai curry
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    Love Thai curry! Almost never make it though, as none of the Asian markets near me carry thai curry paste that is both vegan, and doesn't contain any allergens to me (Cardamon being the big one there). I've made the paste from scratch a few times, but its a fair amount of work.

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    neurodiverse 2mo ago
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    How do you feel about breathing exercises?
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    I find it very helpful, for managing stress, anxiety, fear.

    But like, just because I find it helpful, doesn't mean it's going to work for you. Different people find different coping mechanisms helpful, and I think part of learning to manage neurodivergance and mental illness is building up a suite of things that work for you be they coping mechanisms, medicine or treatments, or whatever.

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  • Petitioning particle physics to change Strange/Charm to Tragedy/Farce
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    also we should swap Top/Bottom back to Truth/Beauty

    Top/Bottom can be the new terms for, idk, strong and weak atomic forces.

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    Is it bad that I don't do B12 everyday as I often forget? Do any of you do other supplements?
  • Eris235 Eris235 2mo ago 100%

    I only really take it once a week, though, I do also use nutritional yeast a lot. My last bloodwork showed by B12 as fine, but ymmv.

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  • Rant spoiler-ed below, because its mostly just complaining, but it feels like a lot of games lately have added 'gamified xp' to their systems, and I don't understand the appeal at all. The most positive any player I've talked to has felt about the systems are 'meh, I could take it or leave it', with most slightly disliking them. So, mostly, I'm looking for people that like these kinds of mechanics (I have to assume they're out there if so many games feel like they're adding them), and what you is it you like about them. But I feel like Milestone XP just makes the most sense for any traditional coop party RPG. ::: spoiler rant I like trying out a bunch of different systems, and there's a lot to like, especially with a lot of the smaller games out there. I do like there 'narrative' approach ttrpgs feel like they've been taking recently, but between Chronicles of Darkness, ICON, Forged in the Dark, Apocalypse world, etc., and all there spinoff systems all having XP be earned for specific actions in game, its just a pain in the ass, that takes me out of the action. I mostly GM, but I strongly prefer milestone XP. For some of the above games, its easy enough to gut their bespoke XP systems out of it, and just have players advance over time, but in several of them, it fucks with the overall balance, since several actions are 'bad', but made worthwhile because they earn XP. But I don't like the feeling of interrupting game to award point, and adjudicate character advancement. And I hate systems that have players advance unevenly. There's always going to be a certain degree on uneven-ness in player attention, of rules mastery, and of spotlighting. As GM, its important to manage those so that everyone gets a chance to shine. But it just feels like increasing that workload for the GM, to need to additionally pay attention to the XP, and try to drag or XP share the players that don't find those systems engaging to not mechanically fall behind. And as a player, I tend to have higher system mastery and attention than the others I play with, and tbh it feels bad to end up with more XP because of that. But also, it feels bad to knowingly pass up free XP by purposefully not engaging with those systems. ::: Really, only Call of Cthulhu and Paranoia feel like their gamified XP fits, and that's largely because the games are *supposed* to feel hopeless and unfair, and in the case of Paranoia, gamified and playing favorites.

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    Made of 10 awg copper wire and 18 awg silver plated wire. Copper work hardened more than I thought, wish I went with 12g instead, but it does make the final result sturdier.

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    zeps the ratman gladiator
    https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/4f6c0942-54f2-4f59-af78-1a9ebbf596f2.png

    145x160, 14 color portrait of my gladiator for this years Dwarf Fortress gladiator tournament. Done in Gimp. He fights with a scourge, and also sucks

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    https://www.drivethrurpg.com/product/404930/Summernatural

    Made this (with a few friends) for a gamejam last year, and never really got around to sharing it (mostly due to creator anxiety). Its up as pay-what-you-want, but please do just get it for free. Made it to be sized as 8.5x5.5, aka half of letter, so it could be printed out and folded up as pocket-sized, and can be run with a bit of scratch paper, a d6, and a deck of cards. I've played it a few times now, though sadly, the main thing I made it for (us all at our camp, after sundown and looking for something to do), hasn't happened in a few years due to covid. But overall, its designed to do a quick one shot, able to be run mostly out of random charts so no pre-planning is needed, and the 'challenges' are from laying out a deck of cards, so its almost boardgame-like in its experience.

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